Auteur/autrice : Joao Pereira

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Lire la suite à propos de l’article The Competence Paradox: Why the People We Trust Most May Be the Ones Who Say “I Don’t Know”
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The Competence Paradox: Why the People We Trust Most May Be the Ones Who Say “I Don’t Know”

The most dangerous sentence in an organization may not be: “We’ve always done it this way.” It may be: “We already know.” We already know what customers want. We already know why people are leaving. We already know why sales declined. We already know what the problem is. And sometimes, of course, we do. But yesterday’s insight can quietly become today’s assumption. This article explores the hidden tension between expertise and curiosity — and why great leaders may need to become comfortable saying: “Here is what I think. Now help me discover where I might be wrong.” Because wisdom may begin the moment experience says, “I’ve seen this before,” and curiosity replies: “Maybe. But look again.”

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Lire la suite à propos de l’article The Anatomy of a “No”: How to Deny a Customer Without Destroying Trust
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The Anatomy of a “No”: How to Deny a Customer Without Destroying Trust

Why saying "It's company policy" literally causes physical pain to your customers. Neuroscience shows us that the human brain processes social rejection in the exact same neural regions that process physical pain. When a customer asks for a refund or a feature and your team hides behind "company policy," the customer's brain doesn't process it as a business rule. Their amygdala processes it as tribal rejection. It triggers an immediate "fight or flight" response. In my new article series focusing on the deep communication skills of CX, we are dissecting the most dreaded scenario: Delivering a "No".

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Lire la suite à propos de l’article The Language of Experience Certainty
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The Language of Experience Certainty

Imagine your flight is canceled and you are going to miss a wedding. You finally reach the gate agent, panicking, and they say: "I'll try to get you on the next flight." Does your anxiety go down? No. It spikes. Why? Because "I'll try" is the language of passive hope. It leaves a massive door open for failure. It tells the customer, "I'm going to make a mild attempt, but when it doesn't work, don't blame me." When a customer's world feels chaotic, they don't want your effort. They want your certainty. In his latest article, The Language of Certainty, Joao Pereira explains how a culture of "Defensive Customer Service" has accidentally trained our agents to speak like politicians—committing to nothing just to protect their QA scores.

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